Low self esteem

“除了自卑以外，我还会什么呢？”
"Beside feeling low self esteem, what else I can do?"

Its my thought now and it was a thought that bugging me for quite some time. I believe a lot of people would have exactly the similar feeling as I do. Low self esteem.

Being in an environment that have people around you that will work closely with you can actually help you to fight this thought but negative thought is always very powerful!

Human are self centered. I would say all human are self centered! Why do I say so, my definition of self centered-ness is that whatever human do, we will always think from our own perspective, we will always seek for something that make us happy, make us worthy! Self defenses are also a kind of self centered behavior, no? Self centered doesn't mean that you are selfish!

What does self centered gonna do with low self esteem? I would say it is positive correlated though I didn't run a research on it! Why, because we always look at the world from our own little and limited perspective, we often see ourselves as worthless because we will eventually overlook our own strength, overlook ourselves that please our friends, compared ourselves with those friends that excel! Yes, we will of cause proud and happy for them but I am sure, sometimes we want to be like them too, too feel good, aren't this self centered-ness?

Although some of us can really look out of our own perspective, there are still elements of self centered in us no matter what. As we can never really understand why some people prefer doing things this way that another way.

I am not making assumption that low self esteem is solely contributed by self centered-ness, but I am saying that it did play a role in making us low self esteem.

Yes, this is solely my OWN perception on this topic, it doesn't mean

FWIGHTING!!