Saturday, July 07, 2007

Friends... What exactly is it? They come and go, leaving those uncleanable footstep in your heart. They sometimes hurt you, sometime stab you, but at times, they help you, support you and be your little light to move forward. What ARE them? Why friends can be so powerful? Have you ever thought about it?

Well, it just came to my mind, and i kinda have thought about it. I'm wondering, just wondering, if i have these friends and appreciate them and treasure them, will they do the same to me? Is it worth it? Hold these thought for a while ya? Will come back to it later, if i don't tell me~ haha

So, human needs someone else to survive, believe it or not. A research has been done by some psychologist if i am not mistaken, they try to isolate infant from human, only give food to them, toys, and everything an infant need, except human being... They make no contact with other human except themselves!! How horrible huh? They got what they want, but no human to play with, no human to be share with, no human to angry with and no human to help them or listen to them when they sad, all alone with lotz of toys! Sad eh? guess what? Those poor thing died! Yes, they died! Can't make it to adult... (er, plz do correct me if i am wrong ok? this is taken from a source which i forgot from where edi, sorry if it is illegal to post something like this ><)

Well, what i want to bring out is that, friends are really important to us, of course, our family members are important to us too, but without friends, we can barely survive...

Agree? How many of you really tell ALL your problem to your parents? How many of you can really enjoy your vacation with only your parents? Ya ya, i know, some did enjoy and will share the problem with parents, but think of it, talking to a friend that seems to be understand more is different from sharing it with parents rite? Parents will die on us someday, sorry to say this but ya, it is true, everyone will DIE one day... So, who is it left for us? Friends!

So, now you know how important friends to us? We cannot get everything done by ourselves rite? In reality, there is no one man war/battle! Unless you are God, there is no way you can handle everything by your own!

So, back to the question, is friends worth to be treasured? Is it worth to appreciate them? Yes. You might ask, "even if they betray you?" My answer will be yes! We all know friends are those who help when others in need, friends will die for us if it is necessary, if we knew these, then we should be the one start doing these with our heart! How our friends treat us is nothing, because they maybe don't know why friends exist! But we KNOW! Therefore we should appreciate everyone of them regardless what they did to us as they are place in our life with a purpose...

Friends are not a tool to use, but friends is like a treasure, they are too great to be valued and we must protect them with our heart!

TREASURE YOUR CLOSE FRIENDS AS THEY ARE MORE VALUABLE THAN NORMAL FRIENDS!!!