Frustration... Anger... Useless... Upset... All these, are me now. I know it is wrong to do so, but i can't deny that i felt these. Why is it so? I don't know, do i? Its all started when she called. Every time we chat, there are sure a lot of silence between the conversation. I am the one who is cracking my damned useless brain to think of something to chat. To find event to talk about. Is this normal?
I am an introverted person, maybe not as introverted as her, but, can both introverted be together? It is okay for me not to chat and just hang out with her, but when I did so, she complain that we don't chat much. Chatting is important in understanding each other i know, but i did tried my best!! Tried for 1 month plus, and now, i am tired... if i, the one that is trying to find topic, try to maintain the conversation and all she do is just answer what i say, giving me short answer, how can me, a mere human, weak human to overcome it...
Christian or not? A lot people might say this doesn't matter, but, i think it is! If she is a christian, i can really chat with her almost everything! Exchange our faith! Share our thought and stuff... Am i not on the way that You pleased? ... really clueless now.... need advice... ... ...
Tuesday, May 08, 2007
Don't know what i want...
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Wat la u.. open blog oso didnt make it more official... Well for ur situation i think i can kinda relate myself with it la. Its definitely normal to run out of topic to talk about, relationships can last for a long time, it'll be pretty darn weird if u really talk non stop. Maybe u should try opening up a bit u know, let her in to ur world or something, share something u wont share with any1 else, tat way she'll probably feel more special to u and hopefully she will do the same in return? If u think religion can help, it might be true for short term only lor for wat i think, u need something tat can last for a long time rite? Besides its only 1 month dude dun give up so fast. Imagine u know a person for 1 month, do u really think u know everything about that person already?
A 35 year old divorcee+lady's man classmate told me a few "tips" la, he said something i found really useful. He put it plain and simple, men need to LISTEN to their partner when they're talking. I am in no way saying ur a bad listener dude, in fact ur the complete opposite. What i'm trying to say is, women usually give hints to want they want in a relationship, guys just cant seem to see it! After my fren told me tat, i actually recalled my past and present experiences and it actually makes sense! I'll leave the rest to u la, remember to listen carefully yea, the clue is right in front of u ;) use ur critical thinking skills maybe?
If all else fails? ask pn.yong lor xD All the best~
if u think tat religion is every thing ,then u really a selfish person,sory to say tat...mayb now u wont understand,but trust me ,u will understand one day...haha..
from an open minded person.
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