Choices... YOU ARE THE BOSS NOT PROBLEM

Choices... Got this inspiration from our friendly neighbourhood- Spiderman~ Well, in the movie, Peter mentioned that everyone have choices to make. You can choose A or B or sometimes C.

Let me give u a scenarios, a very basic one: When people steal, rob the bank or kill someone, some people will use these defenses, "I have no choice but to do so!!" "It's not what I want! I have no choice!!". But to think again, aren't we given much choices? Before we actually did something, if we really tried our best and be patient, i am sure there is a way. Lets say accidentally killed someone that we do not intended to kill. What are the choices?
A: COntrol our emotion. Don't let anger control us.
B: Let our anger rule us!! Who cares about consequences? I just want revenge!!
C: Tell them that i am not satisfy of what they have done and try to look for solution...
D: Gah! What ever la~

See, we have choices to choose from!!

What we need is just:
A: effort, A LOT OF effort
B: Patience, which a lot people lack of. And it's hard to maintain it.
C: Think out of the box. Critical thinking. In almost every situation, it is about THINKING right and not FEELING right! Feeling is faulty. Sometimes our downfall is because of this sweet thing called the FEELING.
D: And of course, a lot of experience. You might not be able to do this the 1st time you encounter the situation. You might need to encounter it for few times, some 1, 2, 30, 40 some even takes years to achieve it! Depends on our will.

Okay, this choices thing, actually i mainly want to focus on staying happy. I am sure everyone will face difficulties in their life, at least i did. Sad because no GF, feeling lonely cause not open up enough, angry because get jealous of ones ability, jealous because you didn't do as well as others. Hey, all this is tiring no? But as i mentioned above, we have choice NOT TO suffer!! Just don't let your feeling control you. When you think you are lonely, don't-lah go and listen to music that suit your feeling and make you more lonely!! Go and do something useful, like helping our your mom, reading, mayb "dota-ing" also might help~

Hmm, will post more bout lonely, sad, anger, jealous in my upcoming post ya? so, stay tune~~