Friday, April 30, 2010

misunderstanding

It is interesting to see how two close friends, are having not so good feeling towards each others just because of clashing of belief and personality~

We place "who is at fault" judgment too quickly and too easily without the effort of thinking on the other side of the shoe, while at the same time we ask people to think of ours. Even when we try to look from the other side of the shoe, we tend to look from our perspective! Guess, this is human after all, this is the limit we could reach.

There will never be the "fault" side when it comes to argument that involve two different personalities, view of the worlds, and beliefs because it is always right for both parties, or more than two if involve more than two (duh)~ Mainly because there are nothing to argue about! Unless we want to consciously persuade others that our idea/belief/personality is better, then by all means, go ahead and create a world war 3~

Leave the other human alone if you do not like his/her style/belief/personality

or

Accept who he/she really is, and live with it~

or

Tell he/she about what different between our style/belief/personality and respect each others difference and live with it~

or

Go and change that poor human and shape it into you! (bwahahaha)

or

Others ____

XD Human Human Human~ what interesting being we are~ (that's why I love psychology~ *wink*)

ps: to you-know-who, I do understand your point of view on that matter~ no worries, it just contradicted with my belief, that's all~ ^^

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