Attitude

Tomorrow is my final and here I am, blogging!!

Well, just want to put in my thought for today.

Today, one of my friend told me that it is not fair to get bonus mark, and he/she said that taking bonus marks is a "cheap" action. When saying that, he/she didn't really care about people that actually go for the bonus. What I am trying to say here is that, he/she doesn't really care about other's feeling. In the end, he/she go for the other subject's bonus marks. HA..HA..HA.. Look who's talking...

I would like to bring up a few attitude that is good but express in a "wrong" way. Well, maybe this "wrong" is not really wrong to all the people, but to me, it is. First is that, care about other's feeling. I found out that it is really important to care about other people's feeling because everyone will get hurt and also our opinion on a particular thing is totally different. Let us take hair for instead, if A just cut his hair, and he thinks that it is ok, look nice on him, but B suddenly come and say "Oh My Gosh, it is UGLY!!" or "Yuk, why did u cut like this?!?!?" or even worst, " What the, you look like a total freak...." all this words basically just means that, the new hairstyle that A cut doesn't look good. Fine, if the hairstyle is really ugly or not good, we can tell him but i think telling him in a more polite way is better. It doesn't pull down his/her confident. We can say "Erm, you cut your hair, well, I don't think it really match you ^^" or "Owh, nice hairstyle, but i think u look more better in the other hairstyle"... Something polite and prepare a ladder for that person to come down from the stage is something i call, good. Honest is good, but sometimes must twist and turn a bit in order not to hurt one's feeling. A lot people in this world just lack of it. People feel good when they say something bad about people. They feel that they are much more better than the rest, think again... You might have a lot of friends, but how many of them is sincere to you? You were backstabbing them, critique them, make a lot of sacarstic opinion of them... Normally these people know a lot of people because they usually wanted to make friends to "show off" and not be friend for the sake of want to understand or help his/her friends when they needed it. (I am generalizing here, no offence)

Normally these people also do something that controdicting his/her own belief. Like the example i have given above. That guy, say that taking bonus marks is a "cheap" action, but in the other subject, he/she is dying for the bonus marks. (Again, generalizing~~~) So, people, ask friends around you, whether you these type of person, and if you are, it is not too late to change, it is hard i know, but it is not imposible. What is learn, can be unlearnt. Counterconditioning. Ohya, if I did that also, don't hesitate to tell me ya? Will be glad of it.


To those that have confused because of my un-organize ideas, what i wanted to say here is;
Try to be understanding
Try to be more caring about other's feeling
Don't do things that controdicting your own belief


PS For the "matured" people outside, you guys are here to help the "unmatured" people, if you think my ideas are childish, try to tell me what's wrong and will try to work on it. And er, those words with ".." means, that itz very very subjective words ^^ And er, really, no offence... i am firing at no one...